How to Boost Your Sex Appeal
You see a beautiful woman. Then you look away. But something in the back of your mind is telling you to take a second look. You become distracted and start gazing at her from a distance. That amazing power is called sex appeal.
They say some men are born with sex appeal. He is naturally good looking and in great physical shape. Other men aren’t so lucky. However, I am here to tell you that sex appeal isn’t something you are born with, it’s something you develop.
Ever known someone who you consider to be good looking but lacks personality? You quickly realise that his gifted genetics are not as important as you once thought!
Sex appeal is the entire package. It’s about making the most of your positive features and feeling comfortable in your own skin. It’s within everyone’s grasp no matter how old you are or what you look like.
I am going to teach you some of the best ways to increase your sex appeal, and make you the one that women are attracted to.
There is no easy way to say this, but some men stink! It is surprising how many men pay little attention to their personal hygiene, harming their sex appeal in the process. You need to invest in some basic toiletries and use them regularly. The basic toiletries are:
- A good antiperspirant. Look out for deodorants that last at least 24 hours. Right Guard, Lynx, Sure Men, Nivea For Men and L’Oreal are all reliable brands.
- Whitening toothpaste and a toothbrush. Brush once in the morning and once in the evening. Make sure you also brush your tongue and the roof of your mouth. This should take care of bad breath.
- Mouthwash and dental floss. Use mouthwash after you have brushed your teeth to help keep your breath fresh and remove any food debris. Antiseptic Mouthwash is best as it not only keeps your breath fresh, but also fights plaque and protects your teeth against food decay. Floss your teeth in the morning and evening to remove food and dental plaque.
- A pack of mints. If you smoke, like drinking coffee or enjoy a tuna sandwich, then carry a pack of extra strong mints around with you at all times. Pop one in your mouth each time you eat and drink something smelly or have a cigarette.
- Shampoo, conditioner and body wash. Shower once in the morning and once in the evening (especially after gym).
- A good moisturiser. Apply in the morning and evening after your shower. I recommend L’Oreal For Men Hydra Energetic Moisturiser. It refreshes your skin and it’s non-greasy which is perfect for the face. Also use a body moisturiser to stop the rest of your body from drying out.
- A chap stick. If your lips are dry and cracked then use a chap stick to soften and protect them.
- Eye drops and eye roll. If you work in a dusty environment or sit in front of a computer all day, then you should use Optrex Eye Whitening Drops to refresh your eyes and make them look brighter. Also use L’Oreal For Men Hydra Energetic Eye Roll to reduce the appearance of bags and dark circles.
- Hair products. There are many types of hair products to choose from, gel, putty, wax, mousse, clay, and spray. Experiment with each product until you find one that suits your hair type and length.
- Fragrances. You should apply a fragrance in the morning and in the evening before you go out. Your fragrance collection should consist of at least 3-4 different types and rotated daily. To help choose the best fragrance for you, read my post Top 10 Men’s Fragrances That Attract Women.
Learn how to use each of these toiletries and use them often. It may cost you a bit of money and a trip to the drugstore, but the difference is amazing and will do wonders for you sex appeal.
If you have a hairy back, a bushy beard and dirty long finger nails then you are seriously damaging your sex appeal. Below are some devices that will help you:
- Nose hair trimmer. To get rid of unwanted nose and ear hair you must invest in a nose hair trimmer. The Remington NE3350 Angled Hygienic Trimmer works perfectly and is very cheap. Use this at least twice a week, depending on how much nose and ear hair you have of course.
- Nail clippers. You always need to keep your finger and toe nails short and clean. Use nail clippers at least once a week and a nail file to smooth out any rough edges. Buy this Men’s Manicure Set which includes everything you will ever need such as, scissors, nail clippers, nail file, tweezers, cuticle pusher, pinchers etc.
- Stubble trimmer. If you like the rugged stubble look which is fashionable these days then BaByliss 7890u i-stubble trimmer will ensure your facial hair looks nice and tidy. Use this trimmer once every two days to keep your facial hair maintained and looking smart.
- Body trimmer. Hair below the neckline also needs to be trimmed and maintained. The main body parts you need to concentrate on are the chest, back and pubic region. The Philips TT2040 Rechargeable All-in-One Bodygroom Pro is great for trimming your chest and pubic hair to your desired length. Trimming your pubic hair is important as it makes your penis appear bigger and cleaner (your more likely to get a blowjob). The Bodygroom Pro is also useful for trimming back hair, assuming you have someone that can do it for you. If you haven’t, then the Man groomer Do-It-Yourself Electric Back Hair Shaver is great for shaving them hard to reach areas. Note: Unless you’re a Bodybuilder or Professional Swimmer, never shave your arms and legs. Having hair in these parts is what makes you a man.
- Hair straighteners. A lot of men think hair straighteners are for women only. But if you have wavy curly hair and what more control then why not use them? You can now buy hair straighteners for shorter hair such as the Toni & Guy TG1186UK 15mm Ceramic Narrow Iron which can be used to create neater hairstyles.
You can buy all these products by clicking on the links. I own each of these devices and they work great. Every woman likes a well groomed man so keeping your body neat and tidy is essential for enhancing your sex appeal.
I spent a good few years wearing anything that was clean in my wardrobe. I was also obsessed with only wearing expensive designer clothes. As I wasn’t earning a fortune, my clothes collection was limited to what I could afford. I would wear the same clothes every weekend without much style. Needless to say, I wasn’t getting much attention from women a few years ago. Once I started paying more attention to what I was wearing, I noticed that I was getting more attention from the women around me. I stopped caring about the brand named clothes and focused more on what the clothes look like and how they fit. Here are some tips:
- Your shoes. You need to own at least two pairs of smart shoes and two pairs of casual. Smart shoes should be kept clean and shiny. For casual shoes, buy a pair of boots and a pair of boat shoes. Women always notice the shoes a man is wearing. It is one of the first things she will judge you on.
- Your belt. Make sure that the colour of your belt matches the colour of your shoes. Wearing a black belt with brown shoes is a serious wardrobe malfunction.
- Branded clothing. Stay away from clothes with big designer logos printed everywhere. You don’t want to look like a walking billboard.
- The fit. Fitted blazers, shirts, jumpers look best but will only work if you’re in good shape.
- Fashion. It’s always a good idea to keep up to date with the latest trends and fashion. However, don’t go out and spend a fortune on the latest jacket just because you saw David Beckham wearing it in a magazine. Be sensible and stick to what works for you and keep within your budget. Remember that clothes go in and out of fashion all the time. Conquer the basics first.
Show women that you care enough to look good. Women love men that are constantly working to improve themselves.
Upgrade your Appearance!
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It is important that you don’t obsess over your body shape. However if you currently have a beer belly and a double chin then the ladies will knock you down a few points. Women and men are biologically inclined to find healthy people more sexually attractive. Ask yourself this…Would you prefer a woman with toned legs and a small waist or her fat lump of a friend? I think the answer is obvious and women think the same as men.
If you’re not already a member of a gym, then you should think about joining one. Getting into shape can only be a good thing for your health, confidence and sex appeal.
You don’t have to spend hours down the gym every day of the week either. Your aim is to get a sexy body not to look like a bodybuilder. By going to the gym 3-4 times a week at 45 minutes each time, you can build lean muscle and lose body fat, creating a body that women desire. Below is a list of male body parts that women find attractive:
- Your shoulders. Broad shoulders makes women feel safe and secure around you. You can build big shoulders by performing the following exercises: Dumbbell shoulder press, barbell shoulder press, and lateral raises.
- Your abs. Please don’t spend all your time doing thousands of crunches. Instead perform High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT) to lose the body fat that is covering up your abs. Perform crunches and other ab exercises in moderation.
- Your bum. Too many men concentrate on their upper body and neglect their legs. A big torso and skinny chicken legs looks stupid and women notice. You can build rock hard glutes by performing the following exercises: Deadlift and squats.
- Your back. Women love a man with a wide strong back. You can build a strong back by performing these exercises: Deadlift, wide-grip pull ups and lat pull downs.
- Your arms. To build big arms you need to work your triceps and biceps. Your triceps are the bigger of the two so working them out is a must. Perform tricep dips and narrow armed push ups to build up your triceps. For your biceps do hammer curls and bicep curls.
To build lean muscle and lose body fat fast you need to concentrate on resistance weight training and HIIT. Compound exercises such as deadlifts, squats, bench press etc are best as they increase your Resting Metabolic Rate, meaning you lose more body fat. To find out more read my post The Truth About Multi-joint and Single Joint Exercises.
Build the Muscle, Lose the Fat
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Hobbies are one of the easiest ways to increase your sex appeal. Become really good at any of your hobbies and you will find a woman that thinks it’s sexy. Hobbies that women find attractive are:
- Playing instruments
- Playing a sport
Some people are just naturally confident. I’m not one of them. Men that are confident radiate sex appeal. I work on my confidence all the time. I don’t just want to feel confident; I want people to see it. Body language is the best way to show confidence. Read my posts 20 Alpha Male Traits You Must Master and 30 Beta Male Traits You Must Avoid. Keep practicing until your confidence becomes second nature.
Be A Leader
Being a leader is a quality that people find attractive, especially women. However, you don’t have to be the boss of a major company. A leader is someone that people look to for guidance. To be a leader you must do the following:
- Be proactive. If you can see a problem arising, take action and the relevant steps to prevent it. If you can’t prevent it then at least prepare.
- Make decisions. Be prepared to make decisions and take responsibility for your actions.
- Motivate. Share positive thoughts with people and inspire them to achieve their goals.
- Solve problems. Develop your talents and apply them towards making a difference.
Be A Challenge
Most women like a man that is a challenge. However, for some reason, a lot of men seem to ignore this. To be a challenge to women:
- Make yourself too available.
- Be needy and seek her approval
- Bombard her with phone calls and text messages.
- Agree with everything she says.
- Be overly nice (Read my post 10 Reasons Why Nice Guy’s Always Finish Last)
- Express your feelings too early.
- Show her enough interest to make her miss you.
- Tease her.
- Give her enough space so she wonders what you are doing.
- Show her that you are enjoying your life.
- Be mysterious.
- Say no.
- Reject her the right way if she is below your standards.
Women like men that they can’t predict. However, most men are predictable. If she can read you like a book then you are destined to fail. To increase your sex appeal and keep her interest levels high you need to:
- Be spontaneous. Stop making plans all the time and over analyzing things too much.
- Surprise her. Keep her guessing what surprises you have up your sleeve.
- Try somewhere new. Don’t always hang out at the same bar or coffee shop.
- Don’t stick to a routine. If you feel like things are becoming a routine, try something different.
- Do what you want to do. If you feel like doing something, just do it!
An attractive personality is important. Your personality is what makes you unique as a person. Some men get through life on their looks and never develop an attractive personality. To build an attractive personality you need to:
- Be positive. Women like men who have a positive outlook on life. Be upbeat and full of energy. No one wants be around someone who is negative and always complaining.
- Be humorous. Women love men that can make them laugh and smile.
- Show respect. Have respect for others as well as respect for yourself.
- Have opinions. Men who don’t have an opinion on anything are boring.
- Be a good listener. Make her feel important by being a good listener.
- Expand your interests. Read and learn more and she will find you more interesting.
- Be yourself. Your personality is unique. Never try to be something you’re not!
Seduce, Pick Up and Date Beautiful Women
If you find approaching women difficult and lack confidence, then you need to read John Alexander’s How To Become An Alpha Male. I used to find it almost impossible talking to women, let alone getting dates, until I read this book. I can honestly say I increased my confidence and self-esteem instantly. Dating women became second nature….. Click Here To Check It Out And Date More Women!
Touch More People
Men with sex appeal are completely comfortable within their own bodies and don’t mind touching other people, especially women. Touch people all the time when in social situations and connect.
Have More Women In Your Life
The bigger your social circle, the more women you will meet. The more women you know the more attractive you become. If a social opportunity arises, take it! Go out with friends, work colleagues, old school friends etc. Spend time with your female friends and you will get introduced to more women. The more exposure to women you get, the number of women chasing you will increase.
Learn More About Sex
Read and learn about sexual techniques, erogenous zones in the human body and what women generally like. Even if you’re not having much sex at the moment or not had much sex in the past, familiarise yourself with the basics so when you do get a woman into bed, you’re prepared and ready for action. I recommend reading How to Be Her Best Lover Ever by John Alexander. This book will teach you everything you need to know about sex.
Have More Sex
Its common knowledge that men who are getting more sex compared to other men are more relaxed and easygoing. This is because they are not bothered when they’re going to get laid next.
Ready To Increase Your Sex Appeal?
Pay attention to the ideas I have outlined here. Try to understand why they are sexy and why women would find them attractive. Start working on yourself and do the little things that will increase your sex appeal first. Gradually increase your sex appeal, and before you know it, you will be getting attention from women around you.
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What tips do you have for increasing someone’s sex appeal? Share with us in the comments!
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