When men are asked, “What do you think attracts women to men?” they usually mention money, power and looks. Although those things always help, there are many more powerful traits that will attract women, and the good news is, every single one of you can develop these attractive traits that women desire. So, without further ado, let me introduce you to some of the things that women find attractive in men.
Appearance
It may be obvious, but to become attractive you need to work on your appearance. You don’t have to be an Adonis to be physically attractive to women, but there are some physical attributes that women look for in men.
Your physical appearance is important as it’s the very first impression you project. Even a man that’s easy on the eye can ruin his good looks by having a bad posture, being unkempt, smell or a bad dress sense. Get a fashionable haircut; buy a stylish pair of shoes and fitting clothes that show off your physique. Go to the gym and workout to stay in shape, eat a healthy diet and make sure you get enough sleep.
If you want to transform your appearance, I recommend that you try The Handsome Factor Program by Mark Belmont. I personally used his transformation program a few years back and it helped me regain my self-confidence and improve my looks in a matter of days.
Personality
To spark attraction in a woman, you want to be:
- Intelligent
- Challenging
- Funny
- Confident
Traits like these build your charismatic personality that women are attracted to. Challenge her by teasing her and using confident humour. When you first start talking to her, she probably won’t be interested in you straight away. But notice how she starts to chase you when you accuse her of it. Be playful about it and smile – leave her wondering if you’re serious or not. The good thing is that this alone makes you appear funny, intelligent and confident at the same time.
Attractive Body Language
According to studies, around 90% of communication is non-verbal and is actually done through body language. Good body language is essential if you’re to attract women. So what is good body language?
Well, if you’re not familiar with good body language then you’ll probably have to fake it for a little while. Sit up straight, with your shoulders back and head up. Make sure you’re relaxed and not tense all while maintaining good posture. Our bodies are naturally prone to take this position when our muscles are exercised properly. So, go gym and train your entire body at least 3 times a week. Your body will naturally take an attractive posture and you will no longer have to think about it.
Social Status
How valuable you are to society, to your friends, to your family, to the human population in general defines your social status and guess what, the higher your value, the more attractive you become. But how do we define value?
It depends on the woman. Some women find powerful men attractive. Others prefer men that are loved by all their family and friends. A LOT of women are attracted to men that constantly seem to have women chasing them, because they’re seen as valuable by lots of competing women. What attracts women regarding social status may vary a little, but the basics of value still apply.
If an individual is seen as more valuable than others, he’ll be more desirable. For example, In this day and age, the boss, or CEO of a firm is seen as valuable. The major mistake most men make is that they try to fake value. They try to impress women by telling them they have value, “Look at my expensive watch”, “I earn loads of money”, “I’m really important because”, etc. Basically they brag (an unattractive trait) which can have a detrimental effect – trying to prove and justify that you have value in the long run makes you less valuable.
To gain value, you must do so naturally. You need to accomplish something and keep yourself busy. The best way to do this is to set yourself goals and achieve them. If you’re proud of yourself, then you are valuable. Men that are valuable don’t need to tell others or brag that they are – it shows. To put it simply, perfect something that you’re passionate about and then at the end of the day, you’ll glow of pride and confidence. Achievements make you valuable, to yourself. And feeling valuable ultimately leads to others finding you valuable and therefore attractive as well.
Good energy
Women also respond to energy and humour. Start enjoying life! Energy is infectious and it sparks interest. If you’re genuinely happy with life and excited to live it, then that in itself will be attractive. People want to be amongst the action and live their life to the fullest. So, if you’re the man helping them achieve that, then more and more people will want to join you and share your level of enthusiasm.
If you have a good sense of humour, then you’re definitely a step closer to being successful at attracting women. Women love to laugh! A man without a sense of humour is just down right boring and not fun to be around. Laughter comes from not taking things too seriously, from teasing to saying inappropriate things or exaggerating stories. This doesn’t mean that you need to act like a clown. Just be quick witted and playful.
Honesty
Being honest can be difficult, but women are attracted to men that are genuine. What attracts women to an honest man is that she can trust him to be trustworthy and real with her. If you don’t fake about who you are, and tell how it is, then it’s the most attractive trait you can have. People that are genuine are comfortable to be around with. It shows that you’re proud to be who you are. If you dislike something, then say or do something about it.
In Short, Enjoy Life
Overall, it’s not just about changing yourself to please women for the sake of attraction. If you look at what women find attractive, you’ll notice that what they’re attracted to is good for you in the first place; taking care of your looks, keeping fit and healthy, having good social skills and sense of humour, being successful, building wealth, being confident. If you work and improve on these areas of your life and yourself, you won’t just become more attractive to women. You’ll become a better man all round. Enjoy your life and live your life to the full, it’s the only one you have.
