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How to Get Women to Chase You

by nick

One of the biggest mistakes men make is that they naturally assume that they need to pursue the woman. This causes guys to make stupid little mistakes, like looking for her approval, giving too many compliments and trying to win her over. Doing so creates a desperate needy impression, which instantly turns women off.

Let me give you an example… My friend was ecstatic with this woman he’d met. “She’s not only good looking, but smart and funny too,” he said to me with a big smile on his face, “and she’s into the same things that I like.” He believed they were a match made in heaven. However, it was only a few weeks later when he told me that she had lost interest. What happened? The answer was in the last text message she had sent him: “I need some space…”

In this article, I am going to outline the secrets that will make women chase you instead of the other way around and guarantee that this doesn’t happen to you.

Give her room to chase you. My friend got obsessed with this woman, and that’s how he drove her out of his life. She saw him a few times, but eventually, the relationship came to an end. I’m sure she was interested in him at first: he’s the kind of guy who displays traits that women are initially attracted to. He’s passionate, charismatic and lives life to the full – I can imagine he made a good first impression.

However, he applied the same enthusiasm to her. Instead of concentrating on his life, he focused everything on her, and it showed. Instead of going with the flow, he tried to drive the chemistry instead of letting it naturally develop.

If you listen in on women’s conversations, you will find that they talk a lot about men. They talk about the latest guy they just met, and get excited about when he’ll call them again. This will only happen though, if you allow room for it.

Don’t obsess over her and give her the opportunity to think about you. Always keep yourself busy and go about your daily business. Go to work, go to the gym, do your food shopping, go out with friends, have fun, chat to other women, then text her when you feel like it. “Hey, I was out shopping today and this reminded me of you (…).”

My friend really pushed that woman to make her write “I need some space.” All he could think about was her instead of getting on with his life. Don’t even get anywhere near that point. Give her the space she needs and allow her to miss you from time to time.

Never feel the need to explain yourself. If you do or say something that seems to upset her, don’t explain yourself or do something to make her feel better. Instead, move on as if nothing happened. If you say something that she doesn’t like, it’s not your problem. The second you try to back pedal or explain yourself then she’s won. You see, women often complain to see if they can manipulate you with their emotions. When she realises that you’re not the typical guy that falls for this, she’ll be attracted to you and respect you more.

Use reverse rapport. To put it simply, do or say the opposite to what a guy would normally do when trying to get a woman to like him. However do so in a sarcastic, overly serious manner. Your aim is to not give her what she expects such as compliments and actions to win her approval.

For example, I was out with my friend in our local bar when he bumped into this woman that he’d been courting. She asked him, “Do you like what I’m wearing?” to which he replied, “Yes I do… you look absolutely beautiful!” What he failed to realise is that she was testing him. Instead he should have said something like, “Honestly, no. It makes your bum look big.” Thus, using reverse rapport. So if you find yourself in a similar situation, just remember, if she counter challenges you, don’t justify yourself. Just laugh it off and move on to the next topic. Don’t be arrogant, do this in a jokingly manner. If you’re too serious, she’ll be immediately turned off. Just laugh it off as it you’re being sarcastic.

Don’t court, instead attract. If you approach a woman with the aim to court her, by being nice, submissive, looking for her approval and giving her compliments, then you’re doing what every other man does when she gets approached.

When you court a woman, her natural response is to run, which makes you want her more and in response she’ll run further – you’re effectively chasing her away, which is the mistake my friend made.

You need to change your mindset and start attracting. Show her that you’re a confident, masculine, dominant and strong alpha male who doesn’t care if he gets the girl because he views himself as the prize. Be a challenge and before you know it, women will be chasing you instead of the other way around.

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